I can't help it. I know it's unreasonable. But I am annoyed anyway. I get that he wants to see his friends now that he's home - that doesn't bug me. It doesnt bug me when he blows off our plans to spend the day together because his best friend is beginning the divorce process and needs his help. I get that, and I am more than okay wih taking a backseat to it, because it is serious. I can come later.

But when he tells me to call back at a certain time so that we can finalize our plans for the evening and then he tells me that he isnt going to be in the beach house as long as he said he had it for but he's trying to find a place for his friends to stay nearby, but he's just going to go back to the beach house and shower and then sleep for a few hours instead of me coming over there or us going out...

It just frustrates me. I blew off other plans to see him today. After 7 months, he's finally home, and I feel like he'd rather spend time with everyone else - and then to top it all off, he randomly drops in a little "yeah i'm gonna fly out to see my mom" as he's saying he'll call me tomorrow to figure out plans. I have no problem with him seeing family, obviously, but uh, he might have wanted to say something to me about it. I'm sick of finding things out by him randomly inserting things into conversations. Not to mention we already MADE plans for tomorrow!! ><

He's so frustrating. I love him, but sometimes I feel like strangling him.