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Heyyyy I'm back.... lol

My 2012 Resolution

well, now I write something here (again), after sooo many times didnt come to this site...

even it's already 11th of January, there are so many things that I would like to achieve ini this year,...

* I will start to make exercise, sport and not eat soo many food at night anymore

I really hate my stomach right now, it's gettin bigger and I really need something to make it flat just like when I still single, after getting merried I it gettin bigger and even

* I will learn Nihonggo (again) and come to AAOU conference in Japan at the end of this year

seems my japanese language gettin worse, I even cant memorize Kanji anymore, sigh... I really want to learn another languages such as France, Germany, Hangeoul-Korea and Mandarin-Chinese..

*I will read more books every month...

many things to do really makes me do not have enough time to read some books, novels or even write in Jurnal or something, someday I really want to publish my book, I hope it'll come true...

* I really want to go to Mecca for Umrah this year and I hope that I can go to Athena for examination...


I'm gettin merried next week...

brown beauty lady

seems so smart, but so far away..

so sexy, makes me wanna know her further..

wish that I am the man and the one for her..

Looking and staring all the time to her face but now I'm at back..

hmmm... beautiful girls...

you are so special...


This year, ssooo many bad things happened for a reason,.. I have to make planning for several years ahead...

then, I have to do some research for my Job,,. above all, I have to pursue my dreams come true///

I believe that I can make it...

resolution in 2011

at the end of this year, there are several lists that I hopt it will come true in 2011...

next year, I want to continue my study, get a new place to teach, exspecially in college or university, so I can transfer my knowledge and be a good motivator for my students...

I really want to move to UT-Pusat, not in UPBJJ Jakarta. Seems so many things to do here and I really got problems and deadline.. not focus in my paper, research or even in enlarge my knowledge...

I really don't know if I can get married next year... hmmm.. many things happened, lots of problems arised.. hope it'll solve next year... I hope...

another day,.. find new things to do

today, in weekend and xmast holiday, it's raining all day here in Jakarta, and in this afternoon there's final match between Indonesia vs Malaysia for AFF Football championship... I have so many problems with my girlfriend.. I really dont know whether I will marry her next year, seems that I havent get ready for that, and most of my family disagree with here... hmm.. complicated..

Again and Again...

yhay, after hibernate...

this is the first time I'm using this again...

wow,...yoroshiku onegai...

Happy new year,...

happy new year 2009 guys,..

a GeNie HaS GiVeN YoU oNe WiSh,WhaT Do YoU WaNT ???

16% said oTheRs,..
18% said InTeLLeGeNt,..
9% said KinDNeSS,..
37% said RiChNeSS,..
21% said GooD LoOKs,..

63 total votes.

thanks for voted guys..


iTs my Birthday,..

i just want to admit that:

this is my wonderful birthday ever,.

coz i've found her in my life!!!

How To Succeed

PLAN while others are playing.


STUDY while others are sleeping.


DECIDE while others are delaying.


PREPARE while others are daydreaming.


BEGIN while others are procrastinating.


WORK while others are wishing.


SAVE while others are wasting.


LISTEN while others are talking.


SMILE while others are frowning.


COMMEND while others are criticizing.


PERSIST while others are quitting.



"Focused will is incredible. If you have a dream and you don't give up no matter what obstacles come up, then life's problems will fall away and you will get what you want. It happens. It works." ~~ Yanni


"Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are." ~~ Bernice Johnson Reagon


"To be successful you must accept all challenges that come your way. You can't just accept the ones you like." ~~ Mike Gafka


"Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortune; but great minds rise above it." ~~ Washington Irving


"The obstacles you face are... mental barriers which can be broken by adopting a more positive approach." ~~ Clarence Blasier


SeVeN SeCReT of SuCCeSS,,..

Roof said : I'm high !

Fan said : Be cool !

Clock said : Every minute precious !

Mirror said : Reflect before you act !

Window said : See the world !

Calender said : Be upto date !

Door said : Push hard (the oportunity door) to achieve your goal !

All the best !!

what does hope do for us???

Hope shines brightest when the hour is darkest.

Hope motivates when discouragement comes.

Hope energizes when the body is tired.

Hope sweetens while bitterness bites.

Hope sings when all melodies are gone.

Hope believes when evidence is eliminated.

Hope listens for answers when no one is talking.

Hope climbs over obstacles when no one is helping.

Hope endures hardship when no one is caring.

Hope smiles confidently when no one is laughing.

Hope reaches for answers when no one is asking.

Hope presses toward victory when no one is encouraging.

Hope dares to give when no one is sharing.

Hope brings the victory when no one is winning.

By John Maxwell from "Think on These Things"

inspiring thoughts

Anger is a condition in which the tongue works faster than the mind.

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You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.

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Love...and you shall be loved.

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God always gives His best to those who leave the choice with Him.

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All people smile in the same language.

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Everyone needs to be loved...
especially when they do not deserve it.

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The real measure of a man's wealth is what he has invested in eternity.

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Laughter is God's sunshine.

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Everyone has beauty, but not everyone sees it.

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It's important for parents to live the same things they teach.

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Thank God for what you have,
TRUST GOD for what you need.

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If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the worries of tomorrow,

you have no today to be thankful for.

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Man looks at outward appearance, but the Lord looks within.

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The choice you make today, will usually affect tomorrow.

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Take time to laugh, for it is the music of the soul.

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Patience is the ability to idle your motor, when you feel like stripping your gears.

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Love is strengthened by working through conflicts together.

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Harsh words break no bones, but they do break hearts.

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To get out of a difficulty, one usually must go through it.

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We take for granted the things, that we should be giving thanks for.

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Love is the only thing that can be divided without being diminished.

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Happiness is enhanced by others, but does not depend upon others.

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For every minute you are angry with someone,
you lose 60 seconds of happiness that you can never get back.

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Do what you can, for who you can, with what you have, and where you are.

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Each of us may have some special moment in life and following some of them


1. Falling in Love
2. Laughing till ur stomach hurts
3. Listening to ur favorite song on the radio
4. Passing ur final exams with good grades
5. Being a part of an interesting conversation
6. Finding money in some old pants
7. Laughing at yourself
8. Sharing wonderful dinner with all ur friends
9. Accidentally hearing someone say something good about u
10. Watching the sunset
11. Listening to a song that reminds u of someone important and special
12. Receiving or Giving ur first kiss (hmm

WiLL YoU LoVe SoMeoNe ThiS MuCH????

it's a good story, a got it from my friend, so i posted it here,..

Girl: Slow down, I'm scared.
Guy: No, this is fun.
Girl: No it's not. Please it's too scary!
Guy: Then tell me you love me.
Girl: Fine I love you. Slow down!
Guy: Now give me a BIG hug.
Girl : *hugs him*
Guy: Can you take my helmet off and put it on yourself? It's bugging me.
Girl: Alright, now slow down
Guy: I love you babe
Girl: I love you too, please just slow down now! Please...

(in the paper the next day):
A motorcycle had crashed into a building
Because of brake failure. Two people were on it, but only 1 had survived.

The truth was that halfway down the
road, the guy realized that his brakes broke, but he
didn't want to let the girl know. Instead, he had her say
she loved him and felt her hug one last time, then
he had her wear his helmet so that she would live
even though it meant that he would die.

My LiFe is 87% PeRfEcT!!

Think you're pretty special huh?
Let's see about that!
Put an "x" next to the answers that are
correct about you then when you get to
the bottom see just how perfect you

[ ] You have a boyfriend/girlfriend.
[X] You love music.
[x] You have your own room.
[X] You own a mobile phone
[x] You have an ipod/ mp3 player.
[X] Your parents are still married.
[X] You have more than 1 best friend.
[ ] There is a swimming pool/hot
tub/trampoline in your backyard

[X] You dress how you want to.
[X] You hang out with friends more than once a week.
[x] There is a computer/ laptop in your room right now.
[X] You have never been beaten up
[ ] You NEVER cry more than twice a month.
[X] You are allowed to listen to the music you want to.
[X] Your room is big enough for you.

[X] You have over 20 friends on Melo.
[X] You have pictures on Melo.
[X] Your parents let you have a Melo.
[X] you get allowance
[X] You collect something normal.
[X] You sometimes look forward to going to school/work.
[ ] You don't wish you were someone else.
[X] You play a sport.
[X] You do something after

[X] You own a car/truck/motor bike
[X]You usually don't fight with your mom
[X]You are happy with your appearance.
[ ]You do not have any failing grades.
[X]You have friends.
T 0 T A L SO FAR: 24

[ ] You know what is going on in the world
[X]You care about many people.
[X] You know more than one language/learning a language
[ ]You have a screen name.
[ ] You got own pet
[X] You know the words to more than 5 songs.
[X] You don't have any serious enemies.
[X] You are a generally nice person (FOR SURE,..)

T O T A L SO FAR : 29

29x3: 87%

My LiFe is So PeRFeCt!!!


this is a Mr.Dingbat

that is me,..

my senior called me that way,..

yeah, superidioticmoronfuckinshitman,..ahahaahhhaa,..

damn, i hate raining, currently it's raining all the time, and i got bad fever for 3 days because of it,..hrmpff, and my interview was canceled because of the heavy rain and bad weather,...


what a mess,..

ReSuLt of My PoLL,...

,..Do You Think That You'll Get Success in The Future,..

0% said oTheRs,..
8% said HeLL yeah, I Don'T CaRe,..
13% said Sure, I'll Do anyThing To GeT iT,..
43% said I DuNno for SuRe,..
36% said oF CoUrSe,..

55 total votes.

so here's the result, you don't know for sure bout your future,..

yes doc, back to the future,..


i LoVe iT,...

the rain couldnt stop dropped from last night until in the early morning,..

and also the thunder, always come over and over again,..

sometimes i've been thinking that i have to change my life,..

to be a better person,..

i don't want to live like this anymore,..

it's so BoreD and there's no Chalengging at all,..

even i love the situation right now,.

i just want to rain for go away,..

and come another bright day!!!

The Social Impact of technology,..

Do you really know, that there are so many bad impacts of technology, sometimes we didn't realize that it will bring the bad effects to our real life,..
the industrial evolution and the evolution itself in society which always depend on technology, sometimes we couldn't handle it and could'nt life without it, and it really affected our activities,..

that is the really one thing that i would like to share which we should be aware of these things... right,..???

This is My visitors MaP,..

iT's My 23rd BiRThDaY,...

myspace layouts, myspace codes, glitter graphics

Thank You Very Much,..
Love You aLL,..


YeaH cRuSh Me BaBy,..

Crush this person!

just get my own Crush Tag,.
fell free to crush it,..


Thanks for Sugarraindrops...


tHis NuMa-NuMa DaNCe ReaLLy MaKeS Me LauGh OuT LouDLy


don't try this at ur home, it really makes me sick....



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I like your profile photo. :).

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