nifty

RrrAaaaWWwWrRRRRrr

I am $150K short for buying my dream home..

My realtor just HAD to show me this unit. Gurr!

I will have to see if I can withdraw more from my RRSP for the downpayment to afford this one.. We'll see.. we'll see.

If anything, I suppose I could just stay at Harrison Garden.

*sigh*

Yes...

I got a pre-approved mortgage for a little over $700K ($150K more than last time).

Let's just hope it works out this time around..

Wish me luck in my condo search!! :)

I hate you, money.

I realized this year that..
the presents that I buy for other people..
are not appreciated..
.. neither is the thought.

Last year, I bought my cousin a Nintendo Wii..
He's an only child..
so am I now..
and I know how lonely it gets..
And he loved it..
for the first couple of months..
Then he made his parents get him a PS3..
This Christmas..
I bought him books..
the "39" series..
"Diaries of a Wimpy Kid"..
"Where the Wild Things are"
..which we all should know is a childhood favourite..
He just looked at me and asked for the receipt..
So he can return the books and buy a game instead..
Even his parents were like..
"He hates books.."
WHAT KIND OF PARENTS WOULD RATHER HAVE THEIR 9 YEAR OLD CHILD PLAY VIOLENT VIDEO GAMES THAN READ A FUCKING BOOK?!
Not to mention..
I got my uncle a bottle of Krupnik..
Polish honey vodka..
He loves drinking..
and I personally love the drink so I thought he would too..
but he said he hated it..
just like that..
"I hate it.."
and included, because this was so much more appreciative:
"Just keep it. I'm not drinking any more of it.. Why didn't you just get me a nice bottle of whiskey or cognac..?"
I got my aunt a beautiful cashmere cardigan from Banana Republic..
She just looked at it and rolled her eyes..
As if it wasn't good enough for her..
I know she was expecting something a bit more high end..
but didn't say anything..
They said they didn't get me anything..
but that didn't matter..
I came to spend time with my family..
not collect on gifts..
The rest of the night was upsetting..
They were so rude..
Just..
Talking about how horrible my parents are..
How badly they raised me and my brother..
and how horrible my other relatives are..
I left immediately after dinner..
I stopped at Tim Hortons for coffee..
(I AM BOYCOTTING STARBUCKS, but that's a story for later)
and they were so stupid and rude..
Which topped up my night..
I took car service with me to Waterloo..
and the new driver they sent was so boring..
this gave me a lot of time to reflect..
.. and I realized..
Everytime I buy presents for people..
Mostly family..
They don't appreciate it.
And I'm 99% sure it's just my family and friends..
I spent Christmas Eve at my boyfriend's..
and..
they were just so grateful to have each other..
they didn't care about the presents..
and said thank you..
and hugged each other..
and..
bottom line..
they didn't make me feel like shit..

I told my mom..
about all the horrible feelings that I've been having..
and why my boyfriend's family was so..
loving..
and she said it's because they're middle class families..
and that they appreciate more things in life..
because they have so little..
and I had to ask..
What's so bad about being middle class?
Because..
All money ever did was ruin my life..
and tear apart our family..
and she says that's easier to get through life with money..
that I just don't understand because I've never been poor..
*sighs*
I think I really hate my life..

oh fuck.

My mother just informed me that she recently lost $60K (Canadian) in a bad investment... (this isn't the first time either)

Of course you did, mom. You go through money like it's water..

I asked her what kind of investment it was and she told me to mind my own business. Well, fine.

Two minutes later, she had the nerve to ask me for "a couple thousand" so she can go shopping today.. and to make sure that a town car or taxi is downstairs by 1:30pm so she can pick up her friend and go out for lunch and shop.

I asked her why she doesn't just put it on her credit card and well.. she seems to have lost it some time last week and forgot to tell me. Thanks mom.. you just lost a platinum amex with a $250K limit.

I'm going to e-mail my dad and ask him why he chose to fertilize HER eggs.. I hope he blames it on heavy use of narcotics.

I curse the day you were opened, Rogers.

I really really do.

Rogers has decided to bill me thousands upon thousands of dollars for my brother's cellular account..

which was closed in September 2007..

They threatened to terminate services which really doesn't matter since it wouldn't affect anybody's usage..

because my brother died and that line has not been used since August 30 2007..

My questions is: why the hell send me this bill now after all these years??

Like I really need this right now. Fuck my life.

Friends are the sunshine of life.

Which explains why my life is gloomy.

A week has gone by since I got my hair cut and straightened flat and not one person has commented. It wasn't even a minor change. I literally had 12 inches of my hair length cut and had it chemically straightened from near perfect waves. This would generally lead an individual to think "Fuck. My hair looks like shit." This isn't the case for me because my hair is perfect. Instead, I am quite certain it's because nobody pays attention to me let alone gives a fuck.

All my life, I wanted a best friend. And my entire life, I was thrown people I was in no way compatible and just as desperate as me to have a BFF forcing us to try to make it work. Ultimately ending in me having no friend.

& Money. Money can buy you friends. Just not good ones. There are 2 types of friends, to my knowledge and.. experience, that money will buy you:
1) Poor, but fun, people who only want to hang out with you so you can fund the fun friend activities.. aka "freeloaders"
2) Self absorbed bitches that only want you as a shopping companion because you can afford it and nannies are no fun to shop with.

I used to consider my boyfriend a friend.. but who am I kidding. Boyfriends are friends by default. Having just a boyfriend as a friend is like.. having only Tom as a friend on MySpace.

On a similar note:
Friends on Facebook: 290
Friends in Real Life: 0

I'm going to go die of shame now.

©2009 Words by Nifty. All rights reserved.

Suck it, Co-Operators.

Co-Operator's Insurance sucks it.
From adjusters to their claims examiners are assholes.

I am cancelling my mom's insurance, home life auto to a different company because evidently Co-Operator's could care less if they have or don't have her business. I just had the male receptionist, oh yah male receptionist, call me a bitch [Literally] because I told him to discontinue contact with my mother and that all q's and c's can be addressed by myself. Despite the fact that I personally handed him the power of attorney the last time I was at their office, they seem to want to claim that it never happened. I obviously dreamed that I was at their office and they never signed in acknowledgment of what was given to them.

Yah. Right. Well, Co-Operators.. have fun trying to find $3700/month elsewhere in this economy, bitches.

WhatTheFuck..

My pants smell like burnt hair. Guess it's time to kill the dry cleaner. Kidding! .......

I'm a drunken tramp:

..and a stupid slut.

Money is Everything

C: I want to be rich.

A: You are rich..

C: Richer..

A: You're already richer than a lot of others we know..

C: I mean, I want to be wealthy..

A: You are..

C: Stop it! I want to be financially wealthy.. financially secure for the rest of my life.

A: You are. Money isn't everything anyway.

C: Money is everything. You think that money isn't everything because we have money.. Money is everything and I want more.. I need more.

The Jays suck it.

I'm currently at the Jays vs. Orioles game and the Jays are winning. #15 Alex Rios is the baaattteeerrrrr uupp!! Gosh darn, I bet $5 they would lose and $10 that they would win.. Either way Im a winner..

Postcard: You know you want it.

I was insanely busy at work.
SO I read the METRO newspaper.
Then my brain developed an awesome idea.
I made a cool giant postcard out of Service Ontario cardboard envelope and the newspaper.
It literally took me a little over an hour to do.
Of course, I have no personal time left so I did it during a phone conference.
Dear Canadian citizens:
$75 of your tax money just went to me making a postcard.
JUST KIDDING.
So now I need somebody to send this to!
Anybody interested in receiving a $75CAD postcard for free?
Let me know: goodbyexkitty@hotmail.com
Love you.

Dead Day = Tomorrow

I hate work. I hate it a lot.

But I have to go tomorrow since I have two confirmed appointments, 1 tentative appointment, phone conference, and 10 interviewees.

SUCK IT, WORK.

Postcard Requests

I just got back to Toronto last night.
So I am not going to be able to send out any postcards from Rome.
However, since there are so many people still wanting them.
I am sending out postcards from Toronto.
For any melo-er that wants it.
Anytime.
Just ask.

Dear Melo users

All 40 postcards have been sent. ♥

Do you want a Postcard from Rome?

Ever wanted an international postcard? Either post your address on my gspot or email it to me at= goodbyexkitty@hotmail.com and I will try my best to send you one before I leave. Peace and Love, Sunshine and Rainbows.

Charisy

ROME ♥

Yah so..
I'm in Rome..
I took a last minute flight..
Booked some last minute hotels..
and having lots of fun!
Although, I'm burning through money like no tomorrow..
I have spent on average 800 Euro and it's only been..
Sunday, Monday, Tuesday..
Three days!
What the shiz.
Tomorrow..
I'm hitting the retail area and going shopping like crazy.
The LV, Gucci, Prada, Dior, Jimmy Choo is cheap like crazy!
I just hope my amex can handle.
Anyway, gots to go. LOVE YOU!

Dear Cincinnati:

I'm headed your way.

My flight departs at 6:00a aka 33 minutes.

I will be there until 230 then I am off to Atlanta!

Results of my poll: Shopping?

Shopping?

70% said Love it
30% said Hate it.

Total Votes: 168

wedding?

So today was my mum's wedding. I bought four dresses and narrowed it down to one. It was beautiful and everybody told me that I looked stunning. I'm glad because I started to feel bad about not wearing a traditional Korean dress. My mother wore a very nice white wedding dress. It was simple but that's the way we like it. She changed into the traditional Korean dress. I only have pictures of her in the Korean dress. I liked it much better. My BFF Cynthia was one of my dates. She was the hottest of them all. I will post pictures of her too. My cousin Sailor Erica Moon came too. She was in a cute outfit, no dress though. I was the maid of honour and there were a lot of pictures taken. I hid for a lot of them but I think I liked it better that way. My mom didn't. Anyway, it ended up not being a very official wedding since my mom didn't realize she needed a marriage license regardless of the fact I reminded her at least 50 times about it since she notified me about her upcoming marriage. Well, I'll be going to go get the marriage license for her on Monday so we can make if official. :D I'm happy and I think I'll love this dad a lot better.

- Me.

My Good Advice

"The feeling a girl experiences when she receives her first designer purse is equivalent if not greater than the feeling a boy has when he has his first.. you know what. Get her the purse.. she'll treasure it forever."
- Me

I didn't know this.. but apparently:

"Holy fuck! You blog?? Why??? That's for losers.."

- My cousin

DAMN YOU MELO

Why can't I stay away..??

I tried to find a new place to blog..

and I keep comparing it to melodramatic...

not just that..

but the fucking people on other blog sites?

OMFG they're so boring..

they're either just there for online sex or there because they feel like the world cares about the random posts they make..

and it's not even like they have interesting things to say..

they have no depth.. or feeling.. in what they write..

SERIOUSLY, NOBODY CARES THAT YOU HAD WENT TO A REGULAR DENTIST CHECK UP TODAY AND EVERYTHING WENT WELL FOR YOU LIKE ALWAYS. WHATTHEFUCKISTHIS?!??! BLOGGING ISN'T FOR YOUR LIKEALWAYS STORIES.

I don't think I'll ever find a place as good as melo..

never ever..

Raptors vs. Bucks

Continue not wishing luck to the Raptors because all the NON luck I got last time made them win! Suck on that, bitches. ♥

Toronto Raptor's vs. Shitty Pacers

I'm going to go get prettied for the Raptor's game.

Wish us luck!! ♥

"..because a4x0n on melo told me to!"

On March 9th, melo user a4x0n said that he thought that rich people should stimulate the economy..

I don't think I'm rich.. but I feel very financially secure..

So today, my bff Cyn and I went shopping..

My mother just happened to be at my home upon my return and noticed my shopping bags..

Of course, she rolls her eyes and asks what I got..

I gave it to her good:

"Well they were having a HUGE sale at Holts (not true) and so I got these totally practical new Jimmy Choo gladiator sandals on sale (Jimmy Choo is never on sale), Gucci jelly flats - and mum they're soooo totally adorable, I could NOT say no and they were only like $50! (also not true), cute heels from Coach and I had to get these because they match the new Burberry trench you bought me... (as I look through my shopping bags I mentions things here and there) Oh! and this silk scarf is a present from Cynthia, Burberry had these scarves coming in sets of two and Cyn got it for us as a BFF present (they were sold individually and I bought them for Cyn and I since she was practically drooling over it) and oh yeah, I'm going to L.A. for Easter so I bought my flight tickets and oh and a nice cute Burberry polo just for you (really for me, but what the hell I'm pretty sure I have it already)."

Notice how I tried to sneak in the flight in there so maybe she wouldn't notice so when she found out later she couldn't say I didn't tell her..

She caught on..

Not only did she catch on but she lectured me for spending $4000 for executive class on a five hour flight when she would have done the same.

Anyway, I remembered that a4x0n said the whole stimulating the economy thing and I said "well this guy a-four-ex-on" (yah, that's how I pronounced it although I'm sure I definitely got it wrong) told me that people with a lot of disposable income should spend all of it to help the economy."

That didn't work out, so thanks a4x0n for making me think that crazy shopping could help the economy: you got me in trouble! (just kidding.. kind of)

UGHHHH I hate it when I get caught shopping.. it totally just ruins my day.

What recession?!

How to justify your purchases during an economic downfall and make everything you want seem like a necessity.

1) $400 Louis Vuitton headbands are a necessity because they keep your hair back while you're reviewing monthly bank reconciliations. Do you realize how much time I waste trying to keep my bangs behind my ears during this time?

2) $200 Gucci rubber flats are a necessity because it's not good for your back to wear heels all the time. Do you want me to have back problems when I'm older? Do you know how much money I'll be saving on chiropractic sessions in the future?

3) A $1300 Tiffany's Paloma's Crown of Hearts watch is a necessity because it helps you stay on track and be on time. Nobody likes a time waster and what better way to keep track of time? How unimpressed would my clients be if I was late all the time?

OR just claim that your credit card was stolen..

OR that this new Cruise '09 Chanel purse? Oh yah, I got that last season... on sale (because chances are, if they're questioning these purchases, they're not going to know the difference).


Weekend Discoveries:

1) Punk bands that suck actually rock

2) Pecan and Caramel covered Cinnabons may SEEM like a good idea, but they're not.

3) Burberry Rainboots are ALWAYS a great investment.

4) Confessions of a Shopaholic is a great movie and has made me seriously consider going to a Shopaholics Anonymous meeting

5) You can never get enough of sushi and Thai food.

6) Ink from my signature stamp are permanent and is not a body decorative.

I think that's it.


Toronto Raptors

only win when I sit courtside.

This is Jason Mraz.

He's not very yummy but his voice is..

This is my sister Linny and her friend Jason.. who I guess is famous now... with my other brother, Daniel..

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Happy St Patrick's Day!

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Whoah...that's almost a mil. :-p haha How times change things.

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this is jimmy

check the new song. i performed it myself. i'm what u'd calle a fuckin savant :O
beans are good but beaners are ass holes

later nowz

:a

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For that amount of money, why not buy a house?

kylethebassist's picture
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I want to visit!

User_Error's picture
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Sounds like a bad idea to me.

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hellooo

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Hey wifey! Hope all is well! That's exciting about your mortgage, you must have excellent credit and a awesome down payment because I will be hopefully going through that process soon and don't expect ANYTHING near that much, I'm lucky if I'll get $250k.

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Thanks hunny!

How have you been?

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...good luck Charisma!...

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I got to the bottom of my kim chi jar today and for some reason, I thought of you. =C Hope you're doing well, Precious.

cadge20's picture
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wow! that's messed up of your family. they should just appreciate what they got and keep their mouths shut.

Money does allow you to be free to do whatever you want, but it definitely cannot buy happiness.

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i like being middle class.

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Re: I hate you, money.

sure it's easier to get through life with more money than less, but not always happier..

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oh yeah! happy meloversary!!

cadge20's picture
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damn...you and your family must be balling!

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Madin was here.

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I have a pair of pants that i used t be able to fit int years ago. and that's my goal.

They're a pair of tripp's bondage pants fr girls. I haven't figure out a top yet. But i'll wait for that closer to my b-day.
I mainly want to lose most of my belly and tone my thighs. I've been trying to eat better and work out. i want to lose inch's I don't care that much with the pounds. I've just been so stressed and i know that's not helping.
what are you taking?

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I just haven't been in the mood. things at school have been driving me crazy. I've been trying to find a job, lose weight, and get school work done. All at the same time.

My 21st is coming up and i want to lose weight and have an awesome outfit. I have no idea if that'll happen

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I miss you. I feel bad we haven't talked much. I think it's due to me not begin on melo as much anymore. I just haven't felt like writing.

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send me money pleaseeee =)

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XD

nice

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I didn't know Charisy had a facebook. You need to find me. methuselas AT gmail DOT com.

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driving without a valid drivers license and then i failed to appear so i had a warrant.

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...it doesn't make any sense!...

[how are ya Charisma?]
*hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz*
~wz luv Vlad~

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Re: I curse the day you were opened, Rogers.

I absolutely HATE Rogers. They put up all these BS charges and it's so lame. I had Telus and that wasn't so great either...but Bell is good. Sorry about your brother.

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...All rights reserved! [you say?]...lol...come on Charisma i think you exagerate [a ;o; bit], take a look around?!...

*hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz*
~wz luv Vlad~

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Hmmm.. I guess in the end we were just too amazingly awesome for each other. Yeah.. that sounds about right..

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I have no love for freeloaders and sadly the reason for that is because I'm such a jew when it comes to money.

Tom never friended me on MySpace. :(

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Hello to you, as well. :D

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:]]

[how you've been Charisma?]

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Its been so long since i have bothered you or stop by this lovly little space on the net... i shall do some more!

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OHH!.
What do you do?

arikel_tolifen's picture
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Pssh. I wish. You need to stop teasing me.

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aww. well i'll be off and on all day.

noriega's picture
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meh...not much. shooty hoops season finally started.

*throws hands in air*
WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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Welcome back, my Asian Sex-goddess

arikel_tolifen's picture
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Pssh. You *SHOULD* be..... =P

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